Why is the first impression so important?

Rajan Jangir
2 min readMay 9, 2023

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The statement “First Impression is the last impression” suggests that the initial impression someone has of you will be the lasting impression they have of you, and that it will not change over time.

First impression really matters a lot because when we meet someone for the first time, they assess our body language, our expressions, hand gestures, etc. They judge us on the basis of what they observe and hear. Everything else becomes secondary. The things that we say, the way in which we act, and everything that indicates anything about our personality lay the foundation on which the other person builds an idea about our character or personality. Once the foundation has been made, it becomes very difficult to change it.

Thus, the first impression is extremely important because it creates a granite foundation for the way in which people understand us. It provides people with the glasses through which they see us. This is precisely the reason why people should make every effort to create a good first impression.

How can one create a good first impression? Or, what are the things that you should keep in mind when you go to meet someone important for the first time?

  • One of the things to remember always is that a person’s state of mind can make a huge difference. If you are nervous and feeling unconfident about yourself, the chances are that you will be unable to present yourself well and smartly. Thus, before you walk in for your first meeting, make sure you are fully confident with a positive attitude.
  • The second thing that is noticed about a person in the first meeting is the things that he/she says. What a person says reflects the way he/she thinks and the opinion he/she has on things. The words that come out of your mouth are the mirror to your personality.

Thus, on your first meeting, make sure that you put your best step forward. Everyone gets just a single chance and they have to make the best out of it. If you spoil your chance, you will have to work very hard and for a very long time to reconstruct your image.

In professional life, a good first impression can open doors to many other things.

Thanks for reading!

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